“So Rob, tell me; are you a God-fearing man?”
Almost twenty years ago in Nashville, I was having lunch with a small business group. There were about eight of us. When our salads came, I began to eat it while conversing with the group. As their salads came, they waited for everyone to get theirs and when they did, they all bowed their heads, while one of the guys said a prayer, blessing the food. Out of respect, I paused and remained quiet. Cool?
Mmm, not for that guy. No, he had to make a thing of me digging into my salad.
Just before he took his first bite, he asks across the table with ultimate smugness, “So Rob, tell me; are you a God-fearing man?” Yep, the table is silent and all eyes on me. I simply responded, “I have no reason to fear God.”
Nice try. And what a shitty thing to do. I dropped them as an agency and life went on happily ever after. I have no room for that kind of dark energy in this life and no amount of business is worth it. I don’t think God’s a fan of it either.
Besides, I don’t need the threat of heaven or the promise of hell to be a good person.
If we’re practicing good behavior, because of the promise of a prize or punishment after death, then that goodness isn’t genuine. It’s not real. It’s deceptive and it’s value is shit.
True goodness comes from within; from the heart, or soul. As it goes, I think the vast majority of us are good or genuinely want to be. And good people do “bad” things and vice versa, given the dynamics of a situation, circumstances, and variables in real time, multiplied by how many people are involved, each with their various levels of influence, philosophy, beliefs, education, background, life experience, hormones, current mood and a myriad of other things.
But, in the grand scheme of things, general goodness is a genuinely inherent trait. However, with 8-billion people, we’re gonna have some bad ones and we treat them accordingly.
But, viewing God as a punisher to be feared, so that we keep ourselves in line? I thought that was the Devil’s job. Am I getting this backwards? I can’t keep up.
Hey, my theories are just as weird as the next guy’s beliefs, but I don’t believe mine are right and anyone else is wrong. Because, we don’t know. No one does. And if your beliefs and way of being doesn’t purposefully infringe upon others; mad respect. And I’m not so insecure to try to get you to believe what I believe, to make me feel righteous. And I’m certainly not going to go out of my way to try to make anyone feel inferior because they didn’t praise God before eating a bowl of salad.
Our soul is ours to respect and protect. Being nasty to someone like that guy did, and most likely does on a regular basis, puts dents in our soul, no matter how much he goes to church and prays over salad. It doesn’t work that way. He didn’t earn a badge from God that allows him to be an ass. He’s ringing up karmic debt and his soul is bearing that weight.
We are energy, infinite consciousness experiencing existence, as we have before and will continue to do so, again and again. What is us will once again and always be the Universe.
Thank you for sharing your energy and being a part of who I am in this existence.