On a recent trip to England and the Netherlands, I must have said “thank you” a hundred times. Not once, did I hear, “you’re welcome”. At one pub, when the bartender served me a beer, I said “thanks”. When she responded with “no worries”, I thought I would test this a bit further. I then … Continue reading Thank You, Cheers, and the Problem with You’re Welcome
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The Case for Care in the Face of Sympathy
I come from a rough neighborhood; that’s no secret. Where I grew up, people were gruff, rough, and tough. In fact, here’s a typical greeting; and seriously, no bullshit, verbatim: “Joe! How the hell are you, you f**king fat bastard? Life treating you good or what?” Yep, pretty typical. Crazy right? But, you know this … Continue reading The Case for Care in the Face of Sympathy
A Joyful Explosion of Humanity
Right around this time every year, I’m riveted, mesmerized, and lost for about three hours in front of my television. No … not that show. Not that one either. This show is an eclectic mix of genres, backgrounds, and styles, mixing together like a well-blended cocktail of only the best unrelated ingredients served in a … Continue reading A Joyful Explosion of Humanity
Conversational Cannonball
Conversational Cannonball Walt Whitman once said, “If you done it, it ain’t bragging.” True. But … I was at a party recently and someone asked how my kids were doing. I’ll only say this; their journey, how they’re navigating it, and all their accomplishments are pretty impressive. I’ll leave it at that. But, sometimes we … Continue reading Conversational Cannonball